Yes, Father, 27th May 1983. I was 13. Dunno if I was capable of having a child then, the thought hadn't really crossed my mind so probably not. Grave visit planned this Saturday, the children are always a little puzzled to see the tears in my eyes after all this time but there you go, they'll inevitable understand one day, hopefully later in their lives than my sudden lesson. Time heals? Dunno, it's just a plaster which lifts occasionally in my experience.
I understand where AC and Pat are coming from, there are practicalities to life of course, and sometimes the unintended consequences are tragic. However, I find it remarkably difficult to muster up any sympathy or understanding for someone who hides a medical condition and subsequently takes a life. There are always other options to a driving job, other paths to take.
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