>>Well why do you frequently post you like visiting here less and less due to a lack of politeness (give or take) when you are a chief supporter for the most over assertive posters who lack politeness in the eyes of others?<<
The last five words of that quote are the clue Fenlander.
They define what I was trying to explain the other day on another thread where I was misunderstood/didn't explain myself well.
My idea of the most over assertive may well be very different to yours and others down to the kind of thing I'm used to in my daily work life.
Likewise to FMR, I honestly didn't see anything racist in that thread and indeed never have done on here. I thought we were having a discussion on what different people consider racist and as such surely descriptions are allowed?
On the other hand, and I'm now going to be totally honest, I realise you've all been better educated than I have. Most of you have been have been brought up in different circles to me.
The majority of you mix with people effortlessly, where I can do it properly, it will always be something I dread and have to work at.
Because of this I expect you ALL to be far more polite, sensitive to others, and know what's right or wrong, I'm afraid.
(When I say sensitive to others, I am not talking of myself but of Rattle, I'm really surprised no-one recognised he felt humiliated even if it was of his own making.)
It's a cross you have to bear and it come with the job, just as I have to be classed as a chav because I once lived I a council house and picked tates for a living, when it suits others:)
Now, how about concentrating on staying on that pedestal I have you all on!
Pat
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