>>And I'm taking full credit for it<<
Well done Sooty for allowing me to demonstrate the reaction a casual contribution from me on any thread, on any subject, gets from a small group of the regular posters on car4play.
The group don't do this to others, not consistently on every post made so why do it to me?
There is no denying it happens.
I have this morning looked at the forum in depth and over the past couple of years, there is one poster who replies almost immediately to every post I make mostly within an hour. Always derogatory, argumentative or sarcastic. Wow, I really must be important to warrant that.
This is always followed on a regular basis by another couple, always the same people demanding full explanations, proof and evidence, along with the accusations that because I said one thing it meant another (to suit their argument)
It's tedious, it's counterproductive for forum traffic so please tell me why you feel the need to do it?
I was surprised looking back on all of my posts how consistently it happens and could certainly be looked upon as stalking or harassment in some people's eyes.
I was thinking I may have imagined it, but no, the evidence is there for all to see.
I have my own theory as to why it's done.
Many years ago a wise old boss of mine gave me a bit of advice. He told me to always stand against the least intelligent person in the room because that would make me look cleverer than I was. So is it just grandstanding? Are you so insecure you need to do that?
OK, I get you few (you know who you are), don't like me and I have an opinion on you too.
Over the last year I have totally ignored one poster on here and contrary to his belief, it has given me immense satisfaction to see how it annoys him, to see the great lengths he will go to in order to try and 'tempt' me into retaliating.
I can certainly recommend that approach so why not do it with me?
I challenge you.....but I bet you can't do it.
I enjoy posting on here, I enjoy the discussions that I seldom contribute to, as well as those I do. I disagree sometimes with others and can say so to them without either party having a problem with it. Bromp, Manatee, Movi, Sooty, Haywain are a few who spring to mind and yes, even Mapmaker. who at the very least will differ with me yet still manages to treat me with a modicum of respect and I return that respect.
I know I'm not the only one who is, and has in the past, got utterly sick of this attitude by a few whose sole intention is to spoil it for so many.
Pat
Last edited by: Pat on Tue 2 Oct 18 at 03:50
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