>>But it's a free country.
>>What? No smiley after that?
I don't think it's a thing to smile about Lygonos, and I'm sure you don't either.
The point I was trying to make, somewhat telegraphically, is that the moment at which a person under severe stress for reasons some of which are known (but others less so) breaks and becomes a 'patient', needing close surveillance and supervisory care, isn't necessarily clear to those who will be called on to do the supervising. The tendency is to take the sufferer's word for it if they say they are all right, because anything else might seem intrusive or patronising.
We are particularly bad at this psychological stuff in this country (although no one is much good at it). Masculine, manly professions like policing are especially vulnerable to stiff upper lip syndrome, seems to me. I agree with Rob that this is a particularly heart-wrenching case. It must have been fairly obvious, well in advance of the suicide, to a close observer that something like this could happen. But no one it seems was in any position to alter the course of events.
Iffy's post above suggesting the poor chap was in denial from the start is a good one. Someone gave him a red scowl for it though. Quite wrongly.
Last edited by: Armel Coussine on Fri 2 Mar 12 at 14:53
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