This is a huge problem for me. My folks are 86/87. She's at advanced dementia (she barely recognises me), he's a tough ex-merchant navy engineer but now suffering cancer and a partial foot amputation. I stayed with them last year until he regained mobility and I was there for about three months.
I can't tell you the amount of calls that I intercepted that wanted his bank affairs. And the number of door to door twits wanting tarmac or charity donations. I caught him actually waving his cheque book at one who certainly won't be coming back when I finished with him. Plus a family opposite who I can only describe as 'grooming'.
When I left him last week I said 'under any circumstances give no details of any kind regarding banking, nothing at all, absolutely nothing and go personally straight to the bank for verification'.
I just don't think he really listened to me. Very worried.
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