I say this with respect, and I have no knowledge of your friends or their daughters and no wish to cast aspersions.
However, it has been my experience that when something doesn't make sense, or doesn't add up, it is sometimes, even often, the "victim" who hasn't described everything completely.
If she has mis-described anything, either in error or on purpose, for any reason, do be careful about backing her into a corner where she feels compelled to take an action which may blow up in her face in the event of a full investigation.
I can think of one incident in particular which blew up very badly in the face of the victim because she had, for various not particularly harmful reasons, got started on a path and then felt she couldn't get off the conveyor belt.
Sometimes it can be as well to let things go quietly away.
Just be careful of the difference between "helping/advising" and "pushing".
Last edited by: No FM2R on Sun 9 Apr 17 at 22:19
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